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Put your oxygen mask on first!

Here we go again! Only this time I am pretty sure it is the last move. Ever. We have moved from Alabama to Texas.

We are now in San Antonio Texas. It is huge! Over ten years I lived in a quiet rural neighborhood. My biggest decision of the day was, do I take a walk this morning or should I do some gardening. Not so now. Now I have much bigger decisions to make. “San Antonio is the seventh most populous city in the United States… and the second most populous city in the state of Texas, with a population of 1.3 million. It was the fastest growing of the top 10 largest cities in the United States from 2000-2010, and the second from 1990-2000.

Now why didn’t I check that out before deciding to move here?

Wow! Like wow! So now what I need to get use to is, it takes a minimum of 30 to 40 minutes to get anywhere I want to get on major highways. That was not the case before. I could drive some mornings with only seeing one or two cars and I would travel maybe on a busy day 15 to 20 minutes. And that was really stretching it. Talk about a low stress life right. I haven’t driven like this since I lived in Brussels.

I got here in San Antonio last Friday. The first thing that hit me was driving in rush hour traffic directly into the sunset in late afternoon. OMG friends!! I had to pull over and wait for the sun to begin to set so I could see the freaking road. How on earth can every travel 70 miles an hour directly into the sun! And I couldn’t even see the stripe on the road to see if I was in my lane. Oh yes, a real eye opener to be sure. Or should I say a eye shutter!

Okay, exhausted, blinded and hungry I pulled off with my husband behind me following me in our small motorhome. We proceeded to “unload” at each other weeks of stress regarding moving interstate from Alabama to Texas. After sitting in a parking intensely discussing (okay we where yelling) we both realized it was time “to put our own oxygen mask on” and take care of ourselves first then everything else. Isn’t that what they tell you when you are in airplane? In case of an emergency put your own mask on first then help others? It really makes so much sense. The best thing we did was just sit there until the sun began to set.

We have spent the next few days figuring out how to create some semblance of a routine to take care of ourselves first then all the business at hand second. Today was the first day I began to feel like my old self. Optimistic, prepared to take on the world.

What caused the change? Still I have a ton on my plate today. What made the change was I looked over on the couch and there was Lizzie sacked out relaxing. I realized that she knew when to recharge and take care of herself and I was up at five o’clock rushing around doing laundry, cleaning up and organizing. Enough! I thought this is stupid.

So I stopped and grabbed the morning paper, my cuppa joe then decided to watch Mike and Stephanie tell me about the weather. How relaxing. And I learned that San Antonio got 3.51” of rain in the last 12 hours. I even had time to sit and blog for a bit. Time to cozy down and do some chilllaxin’, put on my heal thyself mentality and do some down time.

Now that is what I am talking about!

 

 

So you want an organic garden?

I like the idea of having an organic garden. And when it comes to my edibles “chemical” free has its attraction. However, I do not want to be over come with weeds or pests. The misconception is, if you do not have huge bottles of sprays and pesticides on the ready to control the natural environment that the garden will look “au natural” or overgrown or weedy. That is not my idea of organic gardening. Nor is time consumption. I do not want to maintain anything that takes so much of my time that I have no life except my gardening.

I do like the idea of composting. That is good organic materials that are going right back into the earth. But I am puzzled as to why this earth that knows how to feed itself needs our help with so many fertilizers, insecticides and pesticides. What are we doing to the soil that it is stripped of every nutrient so that we are dependent on the local garden center to reintroduce vital nutrients back into our earthen environment?

For example, I have seen over the years that fall cleaning means to raked up the yard free of leaves and other debris. Things that grow naturally in my yard. Okay, I am good with that. I don’t like a messy yard but the next step is bag it, burn it or some other disposal option that is “away” from the yard. Then off to the garden center to get new stuff that was never grown in my yard to replace vital nutrients. That is not for me.

Instead I think that composting or mulching with my yard friendly fall leftovers is just smart gardening. My plants know these vitamins and eat them up. And I am not spending uselessly on garden materials or wasting vital energy getting rid of good stuff.

I admit that is an over simplification to be sure but the point is, stripping the lawn environment or vegetable patch is not smart gardening. I do believe there is a time and place for adding amendments that I do not have in my yard. But balance is the real key.

Three things I do regularly are: compost, mulch and water. Then I add as much natural or xeriscaping as I can to make my life easier. Got the latest gardening catalog? That plant you see looks oh so fabulous and would be just right in a special place in the yard. But! It is not zoned for the area. This has happened to me more than once. So now I take a walk or a drive in my area to see what is growing in other yards. Things that are tried and true to survive where ever I am living.

Right now I live in the humid south. Many of my plants are “old timey” plantings that have been here for generations. They need little care and can germinate easily new starts while defying pests and diseases.Can it get any better than that?

Soon I will be moving to a place that is very dry and desert-like. With that in mind I am considering xeriscaping because I see that this new place I am going to has difficulty growing lush plants like I am use to in the humid south. Xeriscaping is perfect for a drought tolerant, low maintenance garden environment and I look forward to do my gardens this way. So I will start blogging my gardening for the desert prairie soil of the Edwards Plateau area of Texas. Wish me luck!

 

 

On The Road Again: Lake Blackshear

Last week my tall guy and I got on the road to Savannah Georgia. We decided to take the scenic tour. We had a full day to burn so we found a State Park new Cordele. On the map the park looked like just a spot to camp before heading on to Savannah but when we saw Lake Blackshear we were amazed.

Imagine our delight when we lighted on Georgia Veterans State  Park sitting on Lake Blackshear’s bank. It is a stunning park. Has a golf course, hiking trails, a air museum as well as a Veterans museum. We enjoyed a quiet evening and then the next morning decided to take a walk. On the trail Lizzie and I happened upon two white tailed deer that were not afraid of us. They stood still for us until we were only 3 to 4 feet away.

After a beautiful walk we decided to load up and head off to Savannah. We were so taken with the beauty of this park we had no idea that within hours we would be stunned beyond imagination as we walked the tree lined streets of Savannah.

We came home refreshed and ready to move to Savannah! Okay, maybe we will just be taking another vacation there.

My history itch was satisfied in Savannah. We saw the historical district as well. Then that night I got online to learn more. I read that Sherman could not destroy Savannah during the Civil War on his way to through Georgia. Why? He said it was just too beautiful! If you have never been to Savannah then I highly recommend it!